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Posing 101 Guide


INtro to posing

Alright, let’s get you looking 🔥 in your photos for upgrading your dating profile with The Little Gay Book! Posing isn’t about being perfect; it’s about finding angles that make you feel confident, authentic, and feeling like your best self.

The key? Practice. Grab your phone, take some self-portraits, and get comfortable seeing yourself on camera.

Things to Practice Before Your Shoot

  • Selfies are great, but use your phone’s self-timer to capture full-body shots and find your best angles.

  • Record short videos while you pose and move—pause at different frames to see what works best.

  • Play with lighting! Natural light (especially golden hour) is your best friend.

Create a FEEL GOOD PLAYLIST

Nothing is weirder than posing to crickets in a studio. I’ve been in the game for a minute all editorial photo shoots usually have a playlist going to keep the energy going not only for you, but also for the photographer. It’s a game changer!

have a dress rehearsal

Practice posing in different positions in your outfits prior to the shoot. It will allow you to see where you may need to adjust your outfit for the most comfort. Do this in front of a mirror or record yourself in it. Become your own eyes on set :)


Posing Tips for an Epic Dating Profile

When posing for photos in a shoot the goal is to show variations of you, so that your inner presence shines through. The can be a look, a bright natural smile or soft twinkle in your eye. Your goal is to feel as natural as possible, while giving the photographer the opportunity to capture you in your true essence.

This begins with comfortable, flowing movement in front of the camera. You don’t have to worry about holding the shot (unless asked), that’s what the camera is for.

I have a Pinterest board full of poses that you can use as reference when you practice and for the shoot. Pick a few that you resonate with and get in the mirror.

Remember practice creates ease :)

1. The “Unbothered But Hot” Head Tilt

  • Slightly turn your head to the side—it’s effortlessly cool.

  • Keep your chin down just a little for a sharp profile.

  • Make eye contact with the camera, but soften your expression (think: “I know I look good, and so do you”).

2. The Effortless Movement Trick

  • Don’t stand stiff—shift your weight, lean against something, or take a small step.

  • Imagine someone just made you laugh. That little smirk? Gold.

  • Keep it candid—pretend you’re mid-conversation or about to walk away (mysterious = sexy).

3. The “Not Trying Too Hard” Hands & Arms Game

  • Hands in pockets (thumbs out) = relaxed confidence.

  • One hand touching your jacket, shirt, or hair = casual and cool.

  • Lean on something with one elbow, like a wall or railing, to add dimension.

  • If you’re sitting, rest your arm on your knee or let it drape naturally—no T-Rex arms!

  • If you want to cross your arms, do a relaxed version. We don’t want a power suit moment.